What do you to do ?

when a dear one lies to you

and you know they are lying

all the time you were thinking they are right

may be they were lying to you

doesn’t it feel like may be you are that way

that’s why they lied to you ?

it’s us who we blame for everything happening

may be we are wrong or

we are such a stupid person that anyone can fool us

because what we think is just right for every person

except for ourselves

why is it?

why do people lie,

if a person is truly your friend

they will understand then

why to break trust ?

its very hard to live when you know someone lied to you

and you start thinking what if this is not the first time?

all the time you were being lied to

i don’t know how can you again trust the same person

and give them a chance because a person

cannot change and you are the one with that pure soul

that you just know how to love a person

with all their flaws and fault …..

Why is it so that you fall for a wrong guy?

but it seems all right

and he isn’t right not enough

still he makes you feel all perfect

when actually its not

being with him all you do is make him feel right and perfect

whereas you are suffering deep inside

crying for his love and care

but what he do is ignore you when you need him the most..

because of him you feel less worthy and not enough

instead you are perfect in yourself

but being with a wrong guy can make you feel less and lesser

and one day ,the day you realized that you were never wrong

you move on and after that its his ego that comes in between

and he does whatever he can

without even thinking how much you were hurt

and still he continues to hurt you even more..

if a guy is not enough in his life

he will make sure you are even not in your life…

he plays with your happiness, your feelings

and in the end blames you

and you start feeling less because of him

don’t let him use you again by his foul play

live your life love yourself enough

move on and the right person will always make you feel right !!

Life gave you enough

that much enough

you could make yourself happy

Life has a long road

that is eternal for you

to carry your own journey

your journey which can be

ultimate fun, happiness, sadness or full of emotions

and most of it you go through struggle

which teaches you new phases of life

making you stronger and importantly

teaching you “to be you”

so don’t hassle

and make yourself a

happy place for you.

We try to cope up every day with the things around us, but we never thought of what we want around us. We just try and adjust but we never think of what our mind wants us we just focus on what scaring us the most and suffer it twice as once we think of what’s going to happen and how we’ll be feeling and next when it actually happens.

Life teaches you so many thing if you want to learn, each day you face so many things from waking up to doing your own work not depending on others, you do your work because you want to do it your own way .and each day you learn to do it in a better way .If you do not like it you’ll never do it.

Do not think extra just go with the flow as you think of extra your mind starts to make it a mess or rather you yourself make it a mess. You can do it in a simple way. Plan and execute as the day goes by, do what makes your day .There are so many things going around us and with us but it depends on you to focus on it or ignore it, what we feel is what we attract in life. So keeping yourself positive is so important as we think positive we are going to make it positive and if negative thoughts are going all in our mind if something is going to be right, we will only look into the negative part. That’s the point we need to control our mind before it controls us.

Life is so unexpected you don’t know what’s ahead in next 5 mins, so how can you think of next 5 years of yours. It’s good to plan your future but that doesn’t mean you do not live your present, be in your time, live your own time if you focus on something else it’s going to let you suffer. Don’t let yourself suffer because of some other thoughts or someone else having in your thoughts. Let yourself breath and think of yourself.  

In this world where people are fighting for someone else attention, to approve their life and goodness in them. Why don’t they seek their own attention to approve their life and goodness in them. Its our thoughts that confuses us and put in that situation where we require other people attention, while our thoughts are continuously forcing us to doubt our-self. But its only us that can make oneself at ease and feel better.

There are people out there who look at us with goodness and get inspired from us, people who get motivated because once they could us struggling in our life and we came through that. Why not trust our-self and learn to look inside to make us feel better rather than seeking from other people. Why are we so depended on others to look for us when we are down and feeling less important or lonely, its because we want to impress others with our activities and gestures ,but why not impress yourself first and accept yourself.

Looking into life, i feel i have lost many years in impressing others but not accepting myself. If i would have accept myself earlier i would have lived happily not concerning about others but looking for myself and the goodness for others could have been for myself. While we accept our-self we start to feel happy from inside than there is no place for other persons opinion that will matter or be there in your life to make you feel low.

Inclining towards other will only drift you away from yourself why not inclined towards inner self and love yourself. Lets accept our-self and love with all the goodness in your heart.

#thoughts#goodness#life#goodlife#heart

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